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In my support of gender transition or crossdressing journeys, I see how vital the support of loved ones is, especially that of a partner.
Sharing one’s feminization journey with a partner is a significant step.
This path, filled with emotions and revelations, reveals different relational dynamics, from absolute support to rejection reactions.
These varied reactions highlight the importance of dialogue, empathy, and mutual respect.
Fauve’s story, which I share, illustrates the profound impact of a partner’s support in this quest for gender identity while emphasizing the uniqueness of each story.
At Transbeauté, I have the privilege of supporting couples through this emotionally intense process.
Often, it is cisgender women who support their partner’s feminization, playing a key role in their MTF transition or crossdressing by offering emotional, practical, and aesthetic support.
Their commitment reflects deep love and a truly sincere willingness to accompany.
Soon, I will share the testimony of Fauve’s partner.
For now, here is Fauve’s testimony.
Jennifer: “Can you introduce yourself? Age, gender, family situation?”
Fauve: “I am a 25-year-old man, in a relationship with a wonderful woman who accepts and encourages me in my crossdressing journey.”
How long have you wanted to feel like a woman, what was the first “sign” of this desire?
It is a desire that came fairly late; it appeared two or three years ago purely by chance.
I have always been intrigued by many feminine clothes, and by talking with my wife, I discovered some, starting with tights.
She eventually suggested makeup and “feminizing” me to see what it would look like.
I think she wanted to have a laugh at the time… but I took the suggestion very seriously, and I ordered what we were missing: a wig (a €10 wig, but a wig all the same 😂).
On the big day, she dressed me, did my makeup, put on the wig, and I saw myself in the mirror.
When I saw my reflection, I immediately knew I wanted to do it again!
Is this desire occasional or permanent?
It’s an occasional desire. I can spend quite some time without feeling the urge to put on makeup or get dressed up. Before coming to see Jennifer, it had been 2 weeks since I wore makeup.
Why this desire, what does it give you?
I can’t really explain… I feel like it takes me out of everything I know; it transports me to another life where I might express other sides of my personality, like creativity (clothing or decoration), more softness, sensuality, and more letting go.
When did you decide to take the plunge, i.e., crossdress for the first time? For what occasion? What did you feel?
Since I’ve already told the story of my first transformation, I’ll allow myself to tell my first public outing.
After a year of practicing at home, I wanted to move to the next level.
I wanted to go to an LGBT bar in a large French city. I had bought a beautiful black playsuit that I paired with red high heels.
The hotel was 500m from the bar, and we had to walk there. I left the hotel with my little heels on and headed there.
The evening was wonderful, the bar had everything to please: good cocktails, good food, good music, and a beautiful clientele.
I stayed shy all night, didn’t chat much with people or servers, but that’s part of the first times.
A great moment, but unfortunately on the way back I faced the transphobia of some…
Two men on their balcony called to me at first (I think they were looking at girls)… I quickened my pace… And seeing me struggle with my 10 cm heels and somewhat flashy clothes, they understood and outed me by calling me “travelo” (tranny), “pédale” (faggot)…
Fortunately, nothing physical happened to me that night, but I ruminated on this experience a lot, and I haven't gone out in public since…
I lost my taste for makeup for a long time…
Do you have fears regarding society, your family, etc.… any apprehensions or discomfort?
Yes, that experience brought back many fears in me. I became aware of the stupidity of some and the intolerance of many.
What are the next steps in your feminization (if any), or desires you haven’t yet tried but would like?
Regarding my feminization, I think I could learn to do makeup better.
I want to be able to reproduce what Jennifer managed to do to my face. I was unrecognizable and especially beautiful. But that will require time and practice.
In the meantime, I would sincerely like to participate in a DDD evening for early 2024 (January or February).
It will be an opportunity to see Jennifer again and meet new people (I’ll be less shy this time, promise!)
I’m also interested in Charly’s evening in April, but I need to organize for that.
I think it would be great to meet other crossdressers or transgender people through these events to build new friendships! ☺️
Why did you turn to me, and what did I bring to this stage of your life, if I brought you anything?
In one sentence: You gave me back the confidence I had lost.
When you enter your studio, you immediately feel good and at ease.
You can really let go of the Fauve inside us. Fauve has never felt so good in front of someone she just met.
And you truly feel the love you have for your work and for the people you meet.
How did you feel after this session? What did you do immediately after our meeting?
I felt both exhausted and liberated. I also had a hard time realizing that this beautiful young woman in the photos was really me.
With my partner, we scrutinized the photos in detail for long minutes, several days in a row ☺️
Fauve’s testimony shows us that behind a story of crossdressing or transition, there can be a story of love, mutual respect, and kindness.
As the founder of Transbeauté, I frequently witness these life journeys unfolding with grace, courage, and dignity thanks to the support of loved ones.
But I am also contacted by women, wives, in genuine distress when they discover their husband is crossdressing or when he comes out.
I remind that my role is to support, advise with heart and respect, while emphasizing that my expertise has its limits where the need for more specialized support begins.
I strongly advise anyone living a similar situation, as well as their loved ones, to turn to specialized associations such as Acceptess-T or to visit the Wiki Trans website.
(Of course, there are others too)
These organizations offer support, practical information, and a caring community.
They are invaluable resources for anyone seeking guidance in their transition journey.
With Transbeauté, I believe love, mutual respect, and kindness are the pillars to build a more inclusive and empathetic society.
Fauve’s testimony is an inspiration to us all, reminding us that the beauty of existence lies in our ability to be fully ourselves, supported and loved as we are.
And above all… as you are.
Jennifer
Fauve has chosen to keep their face in the shadows, a choice which we at Transbeauté honor with the utmost respect.
This discretion does not take away from the radiance they exude, illuminating every space with their presence, in a striking contrast of shadow and light.
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